Category: For Him
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Jewish Dating: is it okay to lie about your age while looking for your beshert?
We live in a youth-obsessed world: television, films and magazines are constantly bombarding us with the images of young and gorgeous people and the tales of their many adventures. The Jewish community is of course not impervious to this phenomenon. Led by the media into thinking that youth equates beauty, fun, energy, fertility and, ultimately,…
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Relationship problem: maintaining your individuality in a relationship
The psychoanalyst Erich Fromm, in one of his writings, points to the paradox of love: “Two beings become one and yet remain two.” However this does not always occur. Indeed, a common relationship problem, which seems to affect both new and old couples, is the loss of one’s individuality. This can happen for several reasons.…
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Looking for your Jewish soulmate? Are you too picky?
You have been looking for your Jewish soulmate for ages? Consulting dating sites has become your nightly entertainment of choice? Your friends have introduced you to all their single acquaintances? Though you have met several suitable candidates, people your friends liked, your parents liked and maybe even you liked, you still haven’t found THE one:…
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Looking for the Perfect Wife
Obviously, there is no such thing as “the perfect wife.” Every human being has some flaws, but the important thing when looking for a potential partner it is important is to be aware of which flaws we can live with. As one husband said of his wife “she’s not perfect, but she’s perfect for me.”…
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Common Relationship Problems: Keeping Score
In order to avoid one of the most common relationship problems, it is important to keep one thing in mind: what you do for your partner must be done out of love, and not out of a sense of obligation. Unlike some people who believe that a relationship should be 50-50, to make a marriage…
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How to Recover From a Broken Heart
Getting over a broken heart is never easy. After all, we loved and trusted our partner, and no matter what the reason for the break up, the loss of that love and trust hurts. But in the end, a broken heart usually makes us stronger and helps us be a better partner in our next…
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Relationship Questions: How Can We Agree on a Decision?
Among the most common relationship questions are those that revolve around the problems that couples face when they need to come to an agreement . The Jewish view of marriage is that each partner is half of a whole, and each is as important as the other. If so, whose opinion holds more weight when…
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Making Love: Keeping the Passion in Your Marriage
We all understand the importance that making love has in a Jewish marriage. The Jewish faith believes that a man and wife making love is one of the greatest mitzvahs. In fact, it is so important that the quality and quantity of sex that a husband is required to provide to his wife is specified in…
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Romantic Ideas for Building Intimacy in Your Relationship
Every Jewish couple needs to come up with some new romantic ideas from time to time. Even if you have found your bashert, it is important to remember that it takes some effort to maintain a healthy relationship. Building intimacy takes time, and the key to a happy Jewish marriage is making a sustained effort…
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Trust in Relationships Requires Emotional Intimacy
Many couples want to know how they can build trust in relationships. When we are first getting to know someone we have no idea if they will treat us with honesty and integrity. As time goes on, trust hopefully develops, but not always. Even marriages can suffer from a lack of trust because of a…