Maybe your man is doing his best and despite cultural and tantric dogma what he needs most is to be loved.

Neither challenged, nor coddled.
Simply seen. As. He. Is.

Without a filter of need or expectation. Without the pull to become the sort of mutated prince charming, that men become when overly influenced by the feminine value system. Without the suggestion he could be “more of this’ or ‘less of that’.

Perhaps the greatest gift he could receive, would be recognition that his inner guidance system is just as operational as yours. That its got him this far and should not be tampered with.

You are powerful.

Your criticism can maim and castrate and your love can heal and transfigure


You hold him in your heart and create a space for his ‘king’ you will not be disappointed.

Written by: Dane Toma