Flirting is necessary at the start of most relationships, charging the conversation with chemistry. However, most people don’t flirt because they don’t know how to, or they’re doing it wrong. Here’s a simple trick to add to your flirting arsenal.

1) Be on the lookout for something your date says or does that could be a hint that they are into you.

2) Then flip the script and accuse them of flirting with you. Maybe even tease that you’ll have to start flirting back.

This makes the conversation FUN and CHALLENGING which usually does not happen in first-date conversation which is usually polite and platonic. This can also make them laugh which helps them to feel more attracted to you. Keep it playful and they’ll play right into your hand.