Do you often find yourself thinking ‘there’s just no spark here’?

This is very common on first dates, and the answer is probably because you’re simply engaging in a nice, pleasant, boring conversation.

A straight, plain offering of facts about one another does nothing to build a connection with a person because there’s no EMOTION going on.

To create a spark, you need to show them the qualities that make YOU unique.

It will help if you stop caring so badly what they think of you, and try to loosen up. Take the pressure off yourself. You’re there to have fun! Make sure you enjoy it, which will encourage them to loosen up too.